A bit quiet waiting between jobs here so back on the magic net for a few moments and somehow got drawn to this topic.
Boethius is definitly not a new guy here, boethius is i think it is fair to describe unique and very much an individual in a world that some here may not fully appreciate or totally understand.
To have a discussion with him or to understand the art work that he painted himself on his XB a few years back does make you think is he a total mad person or is he actually on another interlectual plain?
I think it could be the later.
Its like day to day life described in the style of quantum physics and explained by a Bueller. Ignore some and take in the clever bits and you could warm to the guy.
Just my open opinion, I know Boethius is not everyones cup of tea and he can appear abrupt or just openly rude and he may need or want to address this if he wants to not get barred from here but their is as he has shown with helping Torky

the tall a good side to him.
He was one of the only Buells to show up on the love albert rd day a few years back and he did frequent the southerners thursday evening regular cafe visits where laughs were often heard.
Back to the question of costs for things, I can see from a perspective that if you were (like many here) cash restricted but still wanted to take part you really would want to know in advance to the penny how much, like he mentioned tolls (No not Trolls att) that could, if not planned to the penny be a stopper. I have been places in the past where I have had to plan to the last 2p in my pocket but did it because I wanted to be part of it, literally 20p unplanned more on a sticky bun would have not enabled me to get enough fuel to get back so can see his perspective if the case was similar.
Not defending any rudeness on his behalf if he (by the sounds of it) offended many good people on here, be it RM bands men

or who ever but just adding my slant on this unique guy?
Many on here have asked in the past where he dissapeared to for the past few years, maybe we are mellowing a bit and he has not changed from the Boe we knew him as???
Said enough, getting back in my box now before I get Boethised (like getting sent to Coventry, (good car/bike museum there

) but far worse . . . .
Rambling over.